I think people should leave Jason and Molly alone so they could get on with their lives. You don't know what Jason was thinking and I am sure he so sorry for hurting Melissa. Just let them be and I wish Melissa the best in the world and hope she finds her true love.

I think Jason should of given Melissa a promise ring but not an engagement ring. Especially since he did say he loved both women. This way he could take his time to see if they were compatible or not. Then if it didn't work out, he could call the network and find out how to get back in touch with Molly. But to do it the way he did it was just not acceptable to me...Trista, Ryan and Max you make the cutest couple and I can't wait to see pics of the little one!

Gheezzzz..It is a reality show that has not produced much success ending in marriage...These people have to know that going in, so why do they let themselves get so taken in until the show is over...I agree with another post that the show should never end with a proposal but instead...a committment to see where the relationship takes them...The show is sit up for failure...How many people can sit and watch the person they are there to care for constantly mesh with all the others in the same way they do with them and then say they love each other..It is crazy!!

I think Jason made a mistake proposing to Melissa when he had such stong feelings for Molly as well. It would be hard to make a lifetime choice in 6 weeks . I do thing he and Molly are better match. Molly comes across a little more mature then Melissa. Melissa will find the right person , she will be gald in the long run.

ONE PHRASE - HE'S GAY!!!

I have one simple comment...I totally agree with what Trista is saying. I've lost all respect for Jason Mesneck. I'm currently pursuing a soulmate thru online dating and it's been amazing how some men feel they can just do whatever they want to a woman. I wish all my best to Melissa, she does deserve better.

Firstly, I'm happy to see that Trista and Ryan and family are so happy. I don't believe that any of the Bachelors can honestly choose their future wife while experiencing all The Fantasy Vacations and luxury entertainment with the world as their audience. After the engagement and the final rose, the show ends, life returns to normal for these couples in their own respective jobs and cities with the expensive diamond. Now they start to know each other's real personalities and future reality dreams - are they the same as when the Fantasy Dates were happening? I do not think so. Molly and Melissa's families must be so upset seeing Jason so mixed up and hurting both of the women. Ty should not have met these two ladies until Jason made a truthful decision - too confusing. Good luck to Melissa, Molly and Jason but I have lost a great deal of respect for the show. I also support Trist'a point of view about Jason's embarrassment to Melissa and Molly.

Jason's biggest mistake was giving the ring to Melissa while still having such strong feelings for Molly. He could not have been in love with either of them, but rather, he was in love with the idea of being in love! You recall, he was just as "broken-hearted" over having to let Jillian go. And they say women are fickled!!!

Who the hell cares! They went on a dating show to find love....big freakin deal! So if they get hurt, that is basically what they signed up for....someone is going to get hurt. Haven't you seen the outcomes of almost all the bachelors???? And the earlier crap comment of them being me people or Molly being slut like....get over it. No one else goes home with a couple at the end of the night but some how our society likes to dictate what they can and can't do and always seem to have this shock factor of ,"oh i can't believe they would do that to eachother." And then the judge and jury is ready to sit down and deliberate. Leave them alone to figure it out. Who are they hurting? It happens every day off the television set!

After following this for weeks on end and hoping this man would find the lady of his dreams, for him to ask Milissa to marry him then change him mind after only 6 weeks THEN ask Molly to try it for a while. WHAT was he thinking he would get as a response? Carmera hog, crying, then say he did it with INTEGERITY? Why blind side someone in such a crule way,then add insult to injury by asking Molly, Why? What did Milissa ever do to you? Do you hate woman? Are you that crule and selfish after your dump. He has no heart. Good luck with your future, I would not do business with him, because of his ethics. Thank you Trista and Ryan for your good sense and fairness. That is why you are so loved. Keep up the good thoughts.

i love seeing trista & ryan together, they make my heart melt. thinking one day this is something i may have. but i have been thinking/wishing/praying an awful long divorce 23 years. but they are so beautiful together. i know it takes work to make a marriage work.

What were the dynamics of Jason's marriage? He seems very immature, as though he never grew up. Hey, I know he has a job with a title, is the firm owned by his father? Remember too that he has no Godly insight into his life. He admitted that to father of that girl that lives in Escondido, Ca.(dead bird burial) He does seem hollow. I hope he washed his hands before he placed the ring on Melanie's finger, remember snot nose girl? I am amazed that this flake has custody. Does he have total custody? I wonder if he had a bad head injury when he was younger, because his brain isn't in his skull. I hope Molly is smarter than she acted on the last show of the last show. Slobbering all over Jason was so classless, even. slut like. Maybe both are insensitive and all about me people. Remember Jason commented several times about Molly's inability to show emotions. Maybe she doesn't have any up to the point when she doesn't get her way............sigh

The first thing I hAVE TO SAY IS THIS: THERE SHOULD BE NO ENGAGEMENT AT THE LAST ROSE CEREMONY.In real liffe it takes a while for two people to get to know each other well enough to make such a huge decision as MARRIAGE. WE don't know what happened between Jason and Melissa during the time that they were together.Jason was married before now he wants to be sure this one would last. I like Jason and I understand his feelings. Although it hurts, he was right to make that choice rather than going further into the relationship and finding out they made a huge mistake.

I think Jason is one of the nicest guys who cares and wants to make everyone happy. I know it is hard to pick the right girl in a short time. Best thing to do is to know the right one in 1-2 years before you decide. Having a small child could rush him to a quick decision to choose ..

I agree with Trista! I think you are so wonderful and I watched you go through what you went through and you were there for the right reasons. As a mom of 2 boys myself - I just always feel uncomforatable with someone being introduced during a relationship in the early stages especially to a child that young. Now that sweet little boy has formed an attachment that has just been severed without any concern for his welfare on the part of Jason. I thought that he was a nice guy - but, now it makes you wonder how selfish can you possibly be... I wish that Molly would have told him where to put the ring... Tell Melissa that there a thousands upon thousands who are outraged by this public cruelty... and you so hit the nail on the head when you said that - Jason took away her chance to be proposed to. Congratulations and good luck to you and Ryan and Max and the new baby on the way!!! God bless you all and YOu go girl! TruDee